Giving Up the Blame Game
Posted by Jana Groscost Matthews | Filed under Affirmations, Ascension, DNA Healing, Empowerment, Inner Alchemy, Jana Matthews, Law of Attraction, Manifesting, New Moon Manifesting, Self Healing, Transformation
We live in a time where few people take responsibility for what is going on with their life. It’s easier to blame someone else for why things are not working out. However, when we blame others we also dis-empower ourselves. We give power to the person we blame. Blame throws us into the mucky waters of negativity. It lowers our vibration and self-worth. With blame come resentment, judgment, and other lower vibrating emotions.
Stop for a moment and think who you are blaming for the circumstances in your life right now. Maybe your mother was critical. Do you blame her for your depression or inability to succeed? Perhaps your ex-husband left you penniless. Do you blame him for your current economic situation? We all have experiences to help us heal karmic contracts and learn compassion. Stop allowing other people to control your emotions and success by giving up the blame game!
Within each of us lies a “shadow side.” It is often denied, ignored, and remains deeply hidden. We often deny it because we want to feel good about ourselves. In fact, we avoid situations and people that trigger it so we feel good. But this doesn’t help us grow. The shadow side lies hidden. When it is triggered, people panic.
By denying the shadow side we live superficially; a state of complacency, with little depth to life. Complacency is a belief that one is superior, a sense of smugness, or self-righteousness. Each of these words describes the ego versus supporting the soul. And when we avoid healing our shadow side, the Universe shakes things up by sending us teachers to shine light on the darkness that still need to be resolved.
Our teachers show up as lovers, friends, family members, bosses, co-workers, and anyone else that triggers the “scary” darkness. The ego in a self-preservation attempt avoids the reflection of the teacher by blaming them for the emotions. But they are here to show us what still needs to be resolved so we may truly experience self-love, self-compassion, and compassion for others. As the light shines upon the darkness, we have a choice to fight, flee, or learn the lesson. When we consciously choose to learn the lesson we learn to love ourselves in spite of our flaws and annoying traits. And once this happens we can experience true love and compassion for others.
When you learn to move beyond blame, you see your teachers as an opportunity to understand yourself more deeply and heal emotional wounds that inhibit you from attracting what you want. These people are in your life for a reason. They show you the things that need attention and what needs to change.
Taking responsibility for your life is empowering. We have all been given the wisdom to know what is necessary to heal ourselves. But in an effort to avoid pain we have shut down the connection with the Inner Wisdom. As people show up and trigger your emotions look at them from a different perspective. They are the messages from within that you are avoiding.
Instead of blaming them, choose to respond differently:
Notice when emotions are being triggered
Write down the emotions you feel
Take a few moments of quiet time to feel the emotions within your body
Ask for assistance from your Inner Wisdom for direction on releasing/healing them
Listen for guidance for your path
Write down your first impression (without discounting or denying it)
Discern for additional clarity – if still confused
Co-create your life
Follow your heart
Believe in yourself
Trust yourself and your Inner Voice
Stop playing the blame game! It becomes a vicious vortex where nobody wins. It’s time to heal. It’s time to make yourself happy and follow your dreams. It’s time to be true to yourself and create your own happiness!
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7.11.11
Posted by Jana Groscost Matthews | Filed under Ascension, DNA Healing, Inner Alchemy, Jana Matthews, Manifesting, Self Healing, Transformation, Transmutation
For those of you who are guided, inspired, or get messages from numbers, today is one of my favorites 7.11.11. This entire year 2011 is about illumination (number 11) and duality (number 2).
The number seven is significant in many aspects of spirituality such as the seven main chakras, seven days, etc.
According to Doreen Virtue, the number seven is “an extremely positive sign and means you should expect more miracles.”
According to Collette Baron Reed, the number seven is ” silence, spirituality, scientific studies, analysis, observation, meditation, and mysticism.
According to Kryon, the number seven is “divinity, wholeness, perfection, and life learning.”
The master number 11 holds the energy of “illumination”. The numbers in a date such as 7.11.11 work as a system each having an influence upon the others. So if we take the general meaning of the number seven as being spirituality, divinity, positivity, and miracles combined with illumination squared with 11.11, then my perception is today is a very special day where we may see shifts in our perceptions of divinity, wholeness, and perfection!
Today (7.11.11) take note of moments where you feel your reactions are different, where you feel different, and where you receive messages from surprising sources. These are all messages from your higher-self guiding you down the path towards your highest perfection! Be open to all messages as today is a portal towards your greatness. Take time to be still in silence and listen to the messages within.
As a gift my prayer for you today is:
“Be open to your angels, guides, ancestors, ascended masters, master teachers, master healers, you God-self, and anyone else assisting you now. Ask them to help you perceive all of the LOVE, VALIDATION, and SUPPORT that surrounds you so that you feel safe in receiving, expressing, and giving these gifts.”
Have a blessed and beautiful day!
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Peace… Joy… Love…
Posted by Jana Groscost Matthews | Filed under Inner Alchemy, Manifesting, Transformation
Whatever holiday you may celebrate, I wish you
May your life be blessed this holiday season and always!
Happy Holidays!
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The Prayer of the Children
Posted by Jana Groscost Matthews | Filed under Manifesting
This beautiful song by Kurt Bestor is a reminder of the cries from children everywhere for us to create more peace in this world.
Can you hear the cries of the children asking for “help” to feel peace?
Peace begins within. What have you done today to create more peace in your life? Find a way everyday, even if only for a moment to feel peace.
Have you asked for help to “feel the love again?”
Ask! Ask! Ask! Ask now!
The children of the world need each of us to make an effort to add more peace to our world. Can you do that?
For more information about Kurt Bestor and his beautiful music visit www.KurtBestor.com.
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Beliefs
Posted by Jana Groscost Matthews | Filed under Healthy, Wealthy & Wise Tips, Manifesting, Transformation
We humans are powerful because we have strong faith. Where is that faith vested? Our faith supports “our story” and what we believe about ourselves. This is why change cannot happen by “wishing” for it. Our beliefs are strong.
You may say, “I am successful… or healthy… or whatever.” But your belief is “I am not successful… or healthy…. or whatever.” The belief overrides your wish to become your desire. Until the belief is changed to be aligned with the wish, failure is inevitable.
Changing a belief is possible. You must challenge every belief that is used to judge yourself, reject yourself, and make yourself small. Whenever the voices in your head put you down, stop them! This breaks the chains that bind your progress, releases the limitations that hold you back from greater love, more success, peace, happiness, and joy!
You are worthy and deserve to receive everything you want. Squash the beliefs that are hindering your success.
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To prepare for the manifesting, write down a list of goals or intentions you want to attract or issues you want to release during the lunar cycle. After the cycle is over, review your old list crossing off goals achieved and file it, then begin a new list for the new cycle. To maintain balance in your life, look at goals on several different levels including financial, spiritual, mental, emotional, and physically.