Manifesting Through Self-Love
Posted by Jana Groscost Matthews | Filed under Ascension, Inner Alchemy, Jana Matthews, Manifesting, New Moon Manifesting, Self Healing, Transformation, Transmutation
We are more than half way through what I call “the year of manifesting.” The time between 10.10.10 (Oct 10, 2010) and 11.11.11 (Nov 11, 2011) is a magical time to create the life we want. The question is, “Are you manifesting consciously or unconsciously?”
If you’re still manifesting undesirable results then now is a great time to look within. Of course it’s difficult to take responsibility for our results it’s so much easier to blame others for what’s going on with us. But that keeps us locked into the victim mentality. If you want to manifest more, then it’s time to love yourself and heal your emotional wounding.
Keeping yourself in the victim role stops the creative process. Where do you still see yourself as the victim? How does it serve you to hold onto this pattern? Do you get sympathy or support? Will you let it go?
Our manifesting is dependent upon our ability to transform existing emotions into what we want. For example, if you feel devastated, depressed, or angry because your plans seem to always fall apart with others, can you respond differently without wallowing in your emotions?
Most children are inadequately taught how to manage their emotions. Inside of you, that child is still looking for validation or understanding of what to do with this emotional stuff. Now as an adult it’s time to take care of all the emotions that have been denied or suppressed.
Every emotion moves through us like a wave. Each one has a vibrational frequency. In the book, Power versus Force, David Hawkins examines emotions and has determined their vibrational frequency. For example, regret (grief) vibrates at a rate of 75, anxiety (fear) vibrates at 100, trust (neutral) vibrates at 250, serenity (joy) vibrates at 540, bliss (peace) vibrates at 600 and enlightenment vibrates between 700-1,000.
Shifting your vibrational frequency is the foundation of changing your results of manifesting; emotions fuel manifesting! The consistency of our personal vibrational frequency affects our outcome. For example, when a person’s emotions vacillate between despair and optimism, that person will attract the vibration it feels most often. Think of a yo-yo. When the yo-yo is at the bottom of the string (despair) it takes more energy to move up the string. The spinning motion of the yo-yo provides the momentum to glide up. If the yo-yo slows down or stops spinning its ability to move up the string is affected.
When a person holds onto lower vibrating emotions the momentum to move up the vibrational ladder diminishes. When a person use affirmations and positive thoughts to shift inner negativity their emotional vibration shifts. This in turn causes a person to attract more of what they want.
One of the most powerful transformations we can work on is self-love. The more often the voice inside your head praises you the more likely you are to create what you want. You are the apple of your Creator’s eye, who desires everything you desire for yourself. It’s learning to overcome our humanness of doubt and fear to create what we want.
Shift negative inner thoughts by using the following affirmations:
“I love and honor myself”
“I am successful”
“I am an extension of my Creator”
“I am worthy to receive”
“I am good at ______”
“I am respected”
The more often your inner dialogue focuses on your positive aspects the more likely you are to be successful! For the next two weeks practice self-love and see how your manifesting improves.
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2 Responses to “Manifesting Through Self-Love”
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Rebecca Says:
July 30th, 2011 at 10:09 am“For example, if you feel devastated, depressed, or angry because your plans seem to always fall apart with others, can you respond differently without wallowing in your emotions?” Good question.
I think many people are ‘afraid’ to acknowledge and feel their emotions because they don’t want to create more of the same; they stuff them down until they resurface. Many people watched “The Secret” and studied the Law of Attraction. They now ‘panic’ when they feel an unpleasant emotion because they ‘fear’ it will create an awful situation. It’s a conundrum.
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Jana Groscost Matthews Says:
July 31st, 2011 at 8:31 amIt’s so true people run from their emotions! When we’re emotionally wounded we change our personality and behavior to avoid experiencing those feelings again, the problem is that the “fear” of attracting them to us actually causes us to do that which we are fearing. But there are ways to heal from the original wounding and attract different stuff to us. It’s finding the tools that teach us how to deal with our emotions and empower us! Blessings on your journey Rebecca!
To prepare for the manifesting, write down a list of goals or intentions you want to attract or issues you want to release during the lunar cycle. After the cycle is over, review your old list crossing off goals achieved and file it, then begin a new list for the new cycle. To maintain balance in your life, look at goals on several different levels including financial, spiritual, mental, emotional, and physically.